Something came in between

I'm currently working on my conceptual project - one that’s close to my heart - called something came in between. It’s about all the less pleasant sides op parenting. The little letters in the imaginary contract you didn’t read. The ones that no one is telling you about, but all parents recognize. The ones that break up your daily structure you’re trying to find with a newborn or young child. 

And besides the fact that the title is about all interruptions in a parent life, it also refers to my own lifecycle. It has been my biggest dream coming true to have and raise three sons in the past nine years, but it was quite an interruption to my artistic career. 

Ik ben momenteel bezig met mijn conceptuele project - een project dat me nauw aan het hart ligt - genaamd "Something came in between". Het gaat over alle minder prettige kanten van het ouderschap. De kleine lettertjes in het denkbeeldige contract dat je niet hebt gelezen. Hetgeen waar niemand je over vertelt, maar die alle ouders herkennen. Die dingen die je dagelijkse structuur verstoren die je probeert te vinden met een pasgeborene of jong kind.

En naast het feit dat de titel gaat over alle onderbrekingen in het leven van een ouder, verwijst het ook naar mijn eigen levenscyclus. Het was mijn grootste droom die uitkwam om in de afgelopen negen jaar drie zoons te hebben en op te voeden, maar het was ook nogal een onderbreking van mijn artistieke carrière.

Say AAAA

Two minutes of toothbrushing, twice a day. How hard can it be? Well, try convincing a toddler to keep their mouth open while you juggle a toothbrush, distractions, and a timer that seems to tick down at a snail’s pace. A tribute to parental patience and the daily chaos in the bathroom..

63 cm x 94 cm

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Plasters

Learning comes with trial and error, and for children that means a lot of falling. So sometimes the first aid kit needs to be brought out. First, a hug for the biggest tears, then the plasters, even if it's just for the placebo effect. But it's mostly the kiss on it that makes everything better again.

79 cm x 103 cm

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Leaks

You only have to think about feedings and it already starts. And just when you think you have it under control, you'll see a child crying in the supermarket and, out of reflex, you'll start leaking spontaneously.

80 cm x 90 cm

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Tangles

Every morning, it's the same story: the tangles from the night need to be combed out of the hair. The pulling and wriggling can sometimes almost look like a little dance between the two of you. But with some gentle words and encouragement, the shiny hair slowly starts to appear. And is ready to get tangles again during the day.

63 cm x 79 cm

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Privacy

The feeling that you can't sacrifice any more self-respect, that you can't even have a peaceful moment to yourself in the bathroom. But even with a whining child on the other side of the doorknob, the small room can feel like a blissful sanctuary.

70 cm x 90 cm

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Dinner mess

With love and hope, you set the plate of food on the table and pull up the high chair. It can happen either out of enthusiasm or disapproval, but who has to clean it all up again?

107 cm x 142 cm

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I'm done!

If they say this, it means you can start working. It stinks, but it's also an intimate connection that I feel grateful for. The fact that a child feels comfortable letting you do this indicates how much they love you.

86 cm x 114 cm.

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Explosion

You smell something sour and want to change the diaper. But when you lift them up, you realize this task is going to take a while. How are you going to get this done with as little extra mess as possible? You’re considering throwing the clothes away.

61 cm x 102 cm.

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Reflux

Quite often you can recognize a young parent by this mark on their back. It usually makes them feel ashamed and proud at the same time.

71 cm x 88 cm.

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Spilled milk

With every turnover the pattern is a surprise again.

30 cm x 30 cm.

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Appelstroop

The typical Dutch spread all first sandwiches are topped with. After the first bites you will make these on a daily basis.

33,5 cm x 43 cm.

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Pacifier

The golden key to silence and tranquility. It's the lifesaver that you never want to lose or get dirty.

30 cm x 30 cm.

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